• Written by: African Politics
• November 19, 2016

WHAT ARE YOU PEOPLE REALLY DOING TOGETHER…?
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A boy and girl together brings sparks.
Don’t argue with me. Call it whatever you like.
Besties
FWBs
Lovers
Couples
One Night Stands
Sex Buddy
Whatever… Put a boy and a girl together…sparks fly. Those that can control the sparks come out as saints… Those who can’t come out scared. (Not all times tho).
My question is simple. What are you guys doing together.
You chat all day long, you text each other, you call each other. You are extremely sweet to each other…
What are you people really doing together?
You go to his house, you cook, you wash, you clean and the many others I have just decided not to write…
What are you people really doing together?
You give her money, pay her school fees, buy her everything she needs. You know she has a boyfriend, you just love to be around her and also empty your pockets on her…
What are you people really doing together?
The two of you are in the university, you stay off camp. She couldn’t get hostel, so she packed her bags and comes to stay with you. You are like the husband, she is like the wife. When you’re coming from class, you buy spaghetti and tin tomatoes, she cooks a good meal for you. You know that you won’t marry her. You know…
What are you people really doing together?
He is a married man. He has a pretty wife and three kids. But, whenever he wants to go for a dinner, he rings you up. To you, you’re just having fun and making some money on the side. He spends heavily on you. You console yourself with the fact that you don’t sleep with him, you only keep him company. Sweetie, its not your job description to keep him company. Let his wife do that.
What are you people really doing together?
He is in Final year and you’re just in Year one. He’s 28 years, you’re 17 years. He sleeps with you everyday. Yes, I know it could work, but, baby, the chances are slim.
What are you people really doing together?
Fellas, define this thing called relationship.
There’s no joke in love.
Ask solid questions:
Where are we going with this?
What are we really doing together?
Who am I to you?
Make that call to your boyfriend today. Tell him you have something serious to discus with him. Call that girl and ask her the real questions. Don’t shy away.
Today, don’t do it tomorrow. If its going to end, it’s better you end it now…not wait till you’ve built your life around a fake thing.
Don’t be a ride along in someone’s emotional journey…be the destination.
Have a lovely day.